10 Ways to Stop Purging After Meals

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Dear Readers,

Please find below tips by coach Jen on how to sop purging after meals. These are very useful tips and once put into practise, they can greatly aid you in your journey to recovery.

10 Ways to Stop Purging After Meals

By: Coach Jen

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Vomiting after eating is the most common form of purging for people with bulimia. However, there are also other forms of purging such as abusing laxatives, over-exercising, diet pills, diuretics and fasting for periods of time.

Some people use only one means of getting rid of food while others use a combination of methods. The ultimate goal of these methods is to rid the body of calories consumed and prevent weight gain.

Unfortunately, these habits are neither effective nor healthy and can wreak havoc on your body, causing long-term complications or even death. The habit of purging is a very strong one. In order to stop, you will probably need some help. Most people can’t recover alone. I know that my own recovery never would have happened without the right support. If you are currently suffering from bulimia and need to stop purging, here are some tips to help you get started.

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1. Understand that purging doesn’t help maintain a lower weight.

People who vomit after meals are making an attempt to reverse the calories consumed and avoid weight gain, or even lose weight. The result is exactly the opposite. Research shows that people who binged then vomited still retained 1,000 to 1,200 calories after throwing up.

Even if you feel ‘empty’ after vomiting, you are probably dehydrated, which can lead to more binge urges and salt cravings.

Also, as your body responds to the food you have eaten, it releases insulin. When you throw up the contents of your stomach, there is now too much insulin in your body. This leads to more sugar cravings!

If you abuse laxatives to get rid of calories, then you need to understand how ineffective that is. Absorption occurs high in the digestive system. Laxatives empty the lower section. Any weight loss you may feel is only due to dehydration. The same goes for diuretics, which actually worsen water retention in the long-run.

Over-exercise is another method used to reduce the calories of a binge. Excessive exercise actually increases the appetite, which increases the likelihood of a binge. There are also many risks involved, such as muscle injuries and vitamin deficiencies.

Diet pills and fasting are also used, but again are ineffective. Diet pills put you at risk for heart problems as they often contain high levels of caffeine. Fasting only leads to more binging.

These methods of purging are not only ineffective, but are dangerous. Once your body has gone into starvation mode, it holds onto calories more effectively than ever. The same goes for dehydration. When you are chronically dehydrated, your body retains water which leads to bloating- the opposite effect of what you’re trying to achieve!

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2. Talk to someone.

Because so many people suffer in silence, researchers do not have an accurate percentage of who successfully recovers alone. I can tell you from experience that it is nearly impossible, and was certainly impossible for me to recover by myself!

Finding support is a great first step to changing your habits once and for all. Not only can a ‘support buddy’ provide accountability, but they can be there for you during your crucial moments. The Bulimia Help Community is full of people who can offer support.

If you need additional guidance, check out the Bulimia Help Coaching Program. Here you can find experienced coaches who have actually recovered from bulimia and can provide insight and support.

Regardless of who you confide in, be sure you aren’t trying to stop purging alone. The isolation of bulimia can increase feelings of loneliness and frustration. It doesn’t take weakness to ask for help, it takes true strength!

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3. Adopt a structured eating plan.

Chaotic eating can lead directly to binging and purging. Structured eating helps to rebalance the body and provide a consistent amount of food. This helps to reduce and end purging because it weakens binge urges. With smaller, weaker binges the desire to get rid of the food also decreases, making it easier to resist.

 

Download: Structured Intuitive Eating And Recovery

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4. Stick to your ‘safe’ foods at first.

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Most people with eating disorders have food lists. These lists can include ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’ foods. When unsafe foods are eaten, the desire to throw up after eating may arise for fear of gaining weight. By sticking to foods you are comfortable eating when you begin structured eating, you may not feel the need to get rid of the calories.

When foods that are considered to be fattening are eaten, the desire to make yourself sick, abuse laxatives or get rid of it in some way may be overwhelming and nearly impossible to resist.

As structured eating progresses and you become more comfortable having food in your body, you can gradually introduce things that have been off limits in the past. It is important you get used to feeling food in your stomach. Once you are accustomed to eating regularly from your ‘safe’ list, take it slowly by adding new types of meals and snacks as you are comfortable.

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You can gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face… You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.
-Eleanor Roosevelt

5. Practice a delay.

 

A very effective habit-changing practice is to delay purging until you can resist it entirely. The first time you practice this, try to delay the purge by just five minutes. Once you are successful with that, increase your time to ten minutes, then twenty, then thirty. Increase your delay time until you can completely resist. Don’t worry if you aren’t able to do this at first, it takes lots of time and practice.

Helpful Hint: While practicing a delay, be sure and distract yourself in some way so that you aren’t just watching the clock!

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6. Keep a recovery journal.

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Journaling is very helpful for many reasons. It gives you a sacred place to write your inner most thoughts and feelings about food, anxiety, stress or whatever triggers you.It also gives you a place to keep positive recovery thoughts and motivation such as moments of success and inspirational quotes for when you most need them. And possibly the most beneficial part of a recovery journal is the insight it gives.

You have the chance to review your thoughts and feelings once you have calmed down or are in a better mood. That is when you can rationalize and decide what was really triggering and how you can best handle it in the future. Tracking progress as well as relapses can show you exactly where your strengths and weaknesses are.

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Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things  brought together.
-Vincent Van Gogh

7. Analyze your pattern.

Review your recovery journal often. Even if you only write in bullet points or a few sentences at the end of the day, look over it again. Try to decide what is helping and what isn’t.

Your journal gives you the chance to decode your binge and purge cycles and see where things are most challenging. Review the successes as much as the failures. Examine what helped you succeed and focus on how to keep going!

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8. Celebrate every bit of success.

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During recovery it can be easy to focus on failure instead of success. Try shifting your focus and celebrating each accomplishment, no matter how big or small.

So you successfully postponed purging for five minutes? Great job!

Don’t focus on the fact that you still purged, focus on the positive changes you are making! You didn’t develop this habit overnight, and it won’t go away that quickly either.

Be patient and maintain a positive outlook as you go. It will be much more helpful than beating yourself up. You can keep a list of accomplishments in your recovery journal. This way you can review them if you are feeling down.

Remember, the journey of recovery is long and consists of many small steps. Celebrate each accomplishment as you go!

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9. Take it one day at a time.

Some people keep track of how many days they can go without a relapse. Others do not. Regardless of whether you count the days, keep things simple. Focus only on today. Don’t dwell on yesterday. Release the anxiety about tomorrow. Recovery happens in the moment, which is where your attention should be.

For my personal recovery, I counted days. Looking back I think it did more harm than good. My advice to others is not to keep track. If you do, try to do like I did and just exclude relapses from your list.

For example if I relapsed on day 50, I would start over the next day as day 50 instead of going back to day 1. This keeps you from being so down on yourself.

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10. Understand the risks.

The more knowledge you have about the effects, the more empowered you are in order to change your mindset and your habits. If you ignore the possible consequences like I did for many years, it can be very shocking to do the research.

The more you know, the better informed your decision to stop will be. Although your recovery should not be fear-based, you may find more motivation in knowing what the dangers are. According to the US National Library of Medicine, the following can result from purging:

  • Hair loss and brittle fingernails.
  • Cavities or gum infections
  • Broken blood vessels in the eyes.
  • Irritated or infected sinuses.
  • Skin rashes and acne.
  • Swollen or infected glands.
  • Overall swollen appearance of the face, particularly the cheeks.
  • Irritation or damage to the lining of the stomach and esophagus.
  • Hypokalemia (low potassium) which can result in abnormal heart rhythms, fatigue, constipation and muscular damage
  • Amenorrhea (irregular periods)
  • Edema (swelling) of the body due to water retention and dehydration
  • Russell’s Sign- visible scars and calluses on the hands

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If you have experienced any of these, you should see a doctor for a full check-up. The earlier you start recovery, the fewer long-term affects you may experience. It’s never too late to make positive changes for your emotional and physical health.

As someone who has made a full recovery from bulimia, I know the challenges you face in accepting food without trying to get rid of the calories.

I hope you find these 10 tips to be practical and helpful. I once believed that vomiting and diet pills helped maintain a low weight, but I was wrong.

I now live a life free from bulimia, and you can too!

Don’t wait any longer to stop binging and purging once and for all! The journey of recovery can start today.

You deserve to be happy and healthy.

 

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Jen Kneabel is a Recovery Coach at bulimiahelp.org. She has a Master’s Degree in Social Work and is experienced in using a variety of therapeutic interventions.

She relies on the Bulimia Help Method as the most effective way to help others make a permanent recovery.Enquire about working with Jen to recover from bulimia.

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Islam and Eating Disorders founded in 2012 – run by Maha Khan, the blog creates awareness of Eating Disorders in the Muslim world, offers information and support for sufferers and their loved ones.

20 Comments

  1. This is very helpful. I am battling with eating disorder for 9 years now and been diagnosed three times with bulimia and anorexia. Seeing people who have recovered is very encouraging. Thank you for sharing these tips.

    • Thank you for stopping by Isabel. I wish you well on your journey to defeating the demon of ED. This 9 years has indeed given you deep insight into this illness and I pray for your health, happiness and freedom from the confines of this disorder.

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  2. Julie carter on

    I have just lyed here and read this, I hope the penny is going to drop soon with me as its been on going for 15 years now battling with bulimia It’s getting worse not better. This information has really effected me and can’t stop thinking about certain things in which you have wrote! I hope 1 day I can write that am bulmia free! Well done and thank you for sharing this and the tips x

    • I am sorry for your suffering. Its very hard and one of the most difficult things you can go through in your life. I wish they had some kind of treatment or a cure for these thoughts that attack the sufferers and compels them to use all ED behaviours. You see this ED as a treacherous foe. If you didn’t then you would not be here reading recovery tips. I pray you recover soon. Thank you for your comments

    • Hi Julie, just saw this message and also the article. How are you doing? Hope your doing well, it’s tough I know but it will get better. Ask yourself your worth it? And it’s a mental battle but it will get better step by step, you have done so well maybe you don’t think like this but you have come a long way. I feel like having faith in God helps this works for me and yoga and prayer helps a lot , big difference. Also your not alone hon and God loves you and I know you will be free one day 😊

  3. Thank you for the post
    I’v had bulima for a while and eating problems from birth
    I mainly hope i can evenually stop the purging for good without my health deteriorating

    • Oh Amy that’s wonderful. Congratulations on defeating this. This is so inspiring and I can tell so many people about this. Thank you for sharing hope

  4. My friend has been battling bulimia for years. I do my best to help her out and be a good friend! This post outlines very good and practical steps towards recovery. I wish everyone battling an ED the best recovery and happy life!

  5. This guide is really helpful for someone who is battling with eating disorders but it is really helpful for everyone else too therefore we can understand their needs better .. Great article !!

  6. I have been battling bulimia for a while now. I feel so much better after emptying the contents of my stomach and that empty feeling makes me feel good after having eaten that burger and fries or any other food I’m not supposed to eat. This article is very helpful. I look forward to trying all that you have mentioned out. but mostly I look forward to recovering

  7. I have had bulumia for 11 years i have been trying my best to stop for a year now i am eating better and only purging about 1 to 2 times a month i worry about health problems i am having because of this please every time i purge my throat burns esophagus is working slower than usual and i have esophagitis in early stages please i need help

  8. I feel its going to be so hard for me to stop purging. I really want and need to stop. I’m in a very different place (a happier one) than when I first developed ednos. I’m so scared because medically my health is declining.

  9. Hey guys, I just want to say your all doing well to the men and women out there fighting this illness. Do not blame yourselves at all this is an illness that originates from your childhood, most people suffering from eating disorders have been through trauma such as sexual abuse, physical and emotional. Eating disorders is much more than weight and appearances everybody has their own stories and reasons, it’s also a form of coping mechanism a way to vent out frustration and negative energy. I believe that each and one of you will get better I have met so many people and myself who has struggled with this illness for 12 years. It’s so hard to fight I haven’t relapsed and it’s tough because I am a Muslim a woman and its hard to let my folks know about this. I seek counselling and CBT helps , my faith in Allah helps a lot having faith in God gets me by without God I will fall on my knees. Battery is running out soon just want to say keep going and if you relapse don’t punish yourself the next day will get better trust me. Keep occupied, eat well, yoga and mediation helps. Also God tests those he loves and this will shape you and make you a stronger person. I hope this helps it’s so tough to write this message and reach people who have struggles and hardships. Take care guys x this article was amazing we need more platform of communication and understanding 👍😀❤️

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